The Breathing Prosperity blog

For any of you who have seen The Secret, there will be a familiar line about how, if you focus on what you really love about another person rather than the things you don’t like, the Universe will set things up so that you ‘zig’ when the other person ‘zags.’ In other words, the Law of Attraction works so that you cannot be in the same space as someone is vibrating with a totally different energy level than you are, at least for long.

Today I have a question, because it seems to be plaguing me as far as what is ‘right’ in this game of understanding and applying the Law of Attraction. If you are in a relationship with someone there will be things that you wish the other person would change…if you are in it long enough! Knowing about Law of Attraction, you may decide instead to look inside and see what you are doing to create whatever the situation is, and if the actions of the other are destructive, you may choose at some point to end the relationship. My question is this: at what point do you draw the line?…What if the other person’s actions are not harmful to you, but somehow you feel you need or want something more/different and you realize it is not fair to expect anything of the other person than to be who they are…? If we are absolutely in control, then we should be able to create the perfect relationship with just about anyone…thus there should never be a reason to leave ie. if we change ourselves enough, any relationship should work out. Of course I am not discounting the desires, and level of maturity, development, etc., of the other party; this is merely a concept I keep kicking around and cannot seem to find a solid answer. I have been asked by many people who are unsure of the point at which they should give up on a current relationship, and I’m asking myself the same question. After ensuring they are not staying out of fear of being alone, how does one decide? If there is already a relationship with a lot going for it, how do you know whether to focus on enjoying the good parts (ie. make those expand in your consciousness and in reality), or to really go for having everything you want, 100%…?

With the huge popularity of the movie THE SECRET appearing on Larry King Live, the Ellen Show and soon to appear on Oprah, the question most people are asking or thinking as they get into the Law of Attraction and The Secret is WHERE IS THE MONEY?

We coincidentally have a conference call tonight to help answer these questions*, but as I was saying – most people are wondering where is the money?…Why hasn’t the money shown up for me yet?

A big part of the process that many are missing is the negative thoughts and feelings that you may still hold about money. A lot of people hold the thoughts that money is the root of all evil or money is dirty, people with money are unhappy, people with money lack love, people with money get used, people with money work too much…etc. etc.. 

We get so used to the constant assaults of how having money is bad for you – these thoughts and feelings have been with us for many years and most of our experiences mirror our thoughts. With our Money and Me Program we have a form called the ‘Money List’ where you list everyone you’ve ever had money experiences with…The first time I did my list, I had over 50 names and 95% of these experiences were negative about money.

So you may be trying to manifest $25k or 1 million dollars or $100 mill, but if you look in your fridge and think ‘I’m broke’; your bank account shows -$129.00; you see a Maybach drive by and you think ‘someone must have bought that for her – she’s stuck up’; you go to buy gas and you think ‘there isn’t enough money to fill up my gas tank’ – these are all money thoughts – and energy – that need to be removed before you can attract money or start to believe this is possible for you.

Tony Robbins said that NO MATTER HOW IT APPEARS TO YOU, if you don’t have the amount of money you want, then you have fear about money.

*Don’t Miss our Crossing the Wealth Gap Free teleconference - tonight at 9pm EST -where we will be joined by Rick Wilkes, an EFT practioner who will work to help YOU release any negative energy you have regarding money.

Are you ready to Cross the Wealth Gap? – RSVP at this link now closed. Thanks to everyone who attended this amazing call!